When do you look the Most Attractive?

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Hey everyone!

Exclusively for this month – Five tips for everyone, three special tips for our girls and three for the guys!

#1 Just listen

Everyone loves to talk about themselves. Don’t just hear them but also listen! Remember the small details. Ask genuine questions and not the fake ones to show that you are interested. Don’t smile with your teeth throughout even if the person is dead gorgeous. Smiling with lips closed during the talk and a flash of teeth towards the end shows natural and genuine interest!

#2 Dress in Red


Red is regarded as the third colour to be named in most languages after black and white. It signals something passionate. Originally, it was used to find the ripest of fruits (during our great ape times) and then it was associated with love and lust. It is scientifically proven that there cannot be any other colour that can trigger attractiveness like red. Now guys and girls, get your red outfits on! Don’t overdo it but don’t forget it either! Click here to find out why red is always a sensation!

#3 Be around the person

You don’t even have to speak to the person for them to find you attractive! Just be around them. Over time, your quirks and your way of things will slowly rub on them. Familiarity with the advantage of proximity is the best you can hope for!

#4 Shoes, shoes and shoes


The first subconscious thing a person notices about you is your footwear. Quick! Go spend the money on shoes rather than anything else! Guys, go for the classic closed shoes with good stitching… my dear girls, you have all the freedom in the world to choose your favourite brand; I know that I can trust your taste! But do get a pedicure session ASAP!

#5 This is a bit weird but wait to be approached… it will make you look 10 times more attractive. Science IS weird.

So, have you seen these playboys who talk to every person in the group and leave out that one hot girl? He is using the tool of avoidance. So, the girl would immediately not get the attention she is used to and decides initiate conversation with him. Trust me, when a person initiates a conversation with you, you will look 10 times more attractive in their eyes.

Now for my ladies!

z-cicek-desenli-brokar-abiye-elbise--lila--gamze-ozkul-278235-1Girls, it is a scientific fact that you look so much more appealing when you are ovulating. So bring the diva out of you during this phase.

Be self-confident because most men find this quality attractive but in the other end of the universe, there are still some communities were they find shy girls beautiful!

Remember that you don’t need to expose skin to look beautiful. You just have to be elegant, carry yourself gracefully and be charming as always!

Gentlemen —

Wear branded clothes – It just makes a man look better. Always look presentable. Subconsciously, a girl expects her man to have a status and resources. A good outfit can take you to heights.

DO NOT overdo your gym workouts. Some girls get freaked out by heavily muscled guys… Maintain the lean figure!


When you want to attract the girl you have been eyeing for weeks now, make her see you with a musical instrument even if you don’t play it. Science says that girls always associate a charmer with musical instruments!


Guest Blog Series – For the poet in you #4

Its kinda funny that I received very less poems for this topic as I thought that most poets would start their writing journey with this topic! Guess I will change to a better topic or rather no topic at all for the last two poetry guest blog weeks. If you have a good idea, then please do type out your thoughts in the comments section!

This is one of my favourite poems… It is not a guest blog post and so, please do excuse me!

She Walks in Beauty
She walks in beauty, like the night
Of cloudless climes and starry skies;
And all that’s best of dark and bright
Meet in her aspect and her eyes;
Thus mellowed to that tender light
Which heaven to gaudy day denies.
One shade the more, one ray the less,
Had half impaired the nameless grace
Which waves in every raven tress,
Or softly lightens o’er her face;
Where thoughts serenely sweet express,
How pure, how dear their dwelling-place.
And on that cheek, and o’er that brow,
So soft, so calm, yet eloquent,
The smiles that win, the tints that glow,
But tell of days in goodness spent,
A mind at peace with all below,
A heart whose love is innocent!
Written by Lord Byron.
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Guest Blog Series – For the Poet in you #3

Dark Fantasy

Source: Dark Beauty

Oh may I plunge?

And drown in the smooth waves,

the waves of your

Dark Dark Hair…


Oh may I gaze?

And just gaze

into the dark hues of your

Dark Dark Eyes…


Oh may I tread?

Tread till the end

on your soft, mellow and

Dark Dark eyelids…


Oh may I tether?

Tether myself to you

and let my soul be purged by your

Dark Dark Fantasies…


©Yaash Jain, 15th July 2015.


Yaash is a poet and his writing usually dwells on life and its mystics. It does sound like good song lyrics Yaash! It has a certain rhythm to it.

Dear readers, back to you again, if you guys have already written or inspired to write on the topic of April 13th’s blog post, – First Love or First Crush – then do send it in to therinkfashion@gmail.com by April 12th midnight! Waiting to hear from you!


Guest Blog Series – For the Poet in You #2

When the Beauty meets the Beast…

Beauty and the Beast


As the lenses come off,

The mascara is removed,

The eye liner is cleaned,

And The eye shadow is mysteriously gone,

The Real Beauty under the fake one

Reveals itself…

Under its eyelids, we can sense the sin

Of how appearance rules the world today.

The Beast makes its place in the mirror

Telling the Beauty that she is no good,

She wouldn’t have a chance in the outside realm.

What the Beast doesn’t know is that

Without the Beauty or her thoughts,

The Beast can never exist…

© S. J. Trent 2017

Thank you S for this poem! Looking forward for more poets to contribute! Look up for the next week’s topic in Saturday’s post on Fashion!






Guest Blog Series – For the Poet in you #1

When tailored garments meet the raw Earth…



Almost as though she were a part of the woods,

And a part of the tailored culture —

She stood in grey to her viewers.


While her cherry red lipstick spoke volumes,

The floral dress floated around

The whiteness exposed the nature

And there was a miracle found.


Against the ethereal happenings, the green made its case

That a fairy tale photo cannot exist

When a forest doesn’t have a face…


©THE RINK 2017

Voila! That is the first poem on THE RINK’s guest blog series on poetry! The writer prefers to be anonymous and has handed over the copyrights to THE RINK. Remember, you don’t need to hand over the rights to get publish on this platform! To check out the topics for April 6th, click here. Also, the poet got stuck in naming this poem. Can you think of a good title? Yeah? Put it in the comments section below!



Trade Secrets: Foundation

By S.C.

This is the last post in this series, I am giving to you the tips for the key part in a makeover: the foundation that keeps everything together (pun intended). I hope you guys enjoy this post too. The  response I have got for this series is very heartwarming, I hope to continue making more content that will be of use to you guys!

BLOT YOUR SKIN WITH A TISSUE after applying foundation to remove excess oils from your face. This helps to prolong the life of your make-up base. Then set with powder.

WASH SPONGES or special applicators regularly. Use warm water and a little dishwashing liquid to remove impurities and bacteria.

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FOUNDATION CAN SLIDE OFF in time due to the skin’s natural oil secretion. Avoid this use a formula incorporating oil absorbers such as talc or nylon powders.

FOR THE BEST RESULTS WITH LIQUID FOUNDATIONS, warm it on the back of you hand and use your fingertips to smooth it on.

I hope you guys enjoyed this series, I will be back soon with another post to simplify your life!


Trade Secrets: Eyebrows

By S.C.

In continuation of last week’s series, this week I am going to share some awesome tips with you guys on eyebrows, because chances are that when someone looks at your eyes they will notice your eyebrows too.

SHARPEN BLUNT TWEEZERS by running sandpaper over the inner tips. This will give you a much smoother overall experience when plucking.

IF PLUCKING IS TOO PAINFUL, smooth on some baby’s teething gel to numb the area temporarily. This will make plucking a more endurable process.

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SUBSTITUTE A TOOTHBRUSH for a brow comb to groom your brows if you need a new one or just can’t be asked to get one.

IF YOU ARE A SLAPDASH when applying brow pencil, rub the pencil on the back of you hand. Run over these marks with a brow brush or a cotton bud and use this to shade the brows instead.

This is the penultimate post of this series, but I am still willing to post update posts if you want any extra tips on a specific subject, just leave a comment and I will get to you asap!